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Sun Apr 13, 2008, 9:14 PM
"Some people are naturally solitary. They want to live lone lives, and are content. Most, however, have a need for enduring, close relationships. These provide both a psychic and social framework for personal growth, understanding, and development. It is an easy enough matter to shout to the skies: "I love my fellow men," when on the other hand you form no strong, enduring relationship with others. It is easy to claim an equal love for all members of the species, but love itself requires an understanding that at your level of activity is based upon intimate experience. You cannot love someone you do not know - not unless you water down the definition of love so much that it becomes meaningless.

To love someone, you must appreciate how that person differs from yourself and from others. You must hold that person in mind so that to some extent love is a kind of meditation - a loving focus upon another individual. Once you experience that kind of love you can translate it into other terms. The love itself spreads out, expands, so that you can then see others in love's light.

Love is naturally creative and explorative - that is, you want to creatively explore the aspects of the beloved one. Even characteristics that would appear as faults attain a certain loving significance. They are accepted - seen, and yet they make no difference. Because these are still attributes of the beloved one, even the seeming faults are redeemed. The beloved attains prominence over all others.

The span of god's love can perhaps equally hold within its vision the existences if all individuals at one time in an infinite loving glance that beholds each person, seeing each with all his or her peculiar characteristics and tendencies. Such a god's glance would delight in each person's difference from each other person. This would not be a blanket love, a soupy porridge of a glance in which individuality melted, but a love based on a full understanding of each individual... Love incites dedication, commitment. It specifies. You cannot, therefore, honestly insist that you love humanity and all people equally if you do not love one other person. If you do not love yourself, it is quite difficult to love another."


Seth, from The Nature of the Psyche

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Intellectual Dancers :)

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Thank you for watching my works!

Your support is much appreciated! :)
The instrument was the question. Have you read Island by Aldous Huxley? Im reading it at the moment and its amazing. What I would give to have a conversation with Aldous...

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Thanks for taking the time to read my writing, i like that piece very much. It would seem we do share a certain line of thinking (moreover the underlying and permeating importance of this knowledge in everyday existence) I have a question stuck inside my head; it appeared from nowhere. Do you play any kind of instruments at all?

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Thanx for the watch mate! ^^
gracias, senor, for your interest, intimidatingly inquisitive questions and attentiveness! and favorites. and the watch. and for making me think, 'cause i don't do that enough, which is not meant sarcastically.
if you have an interest in eloquent philosophy, i recommend to you the work of clarice lispector! you will not find her on deviantart and may have difficulty even finding her in english, as she wrote primarily in portugese. but, of course, there are translations.
thanks so much for the favs and watch hun!:aww:
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"I wonder what's in a book while it's closed. I know it's full of letters printed on paper, but [..] something must be happening, because as soon as I open it, there's a whole story with people I don't know yet and all kinds of adventures and battles."

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